Secrets of Service...
How to Be My FINDOM on a BUDGET
Hello, my sweet little pets.
It has been too long, and Daddy has missed you. I want to start by thanking everyone who sent birthday presents—I was thoroughly spoiled, and I appreciate every penny.
Which brings us to the topic of the hour…
How can we prosper and thrive in a healthy FinDom/sub relationship on Streamate?
Here’s a little insight into my process to give you a head start when you decide to pursue a financial relationship with me.
Understanding Yourself: What Is Appealing About Giving/Spending Money?
Let’s start by talking about the why. Why does it feel good for you to spend money as an act of service?
- Do you get fulfillment from taking care of your Domme, like making sure they’re fed or covering a bill?
- Do you want to give over your power and humanity to the point that even your paychecks belong to them (my favorite)?
- Maybe you enjoy seeing the face of someone you care for light up when receiving a meaningful gift.
- Perhaps you just love the degradation of having no use outside of opening your wallet!
There are many reasons why it can feel good. In our initial sessions, we’ll discuss this so we can approach FinDom in a way that best fulfills both of our needs.
Negotiation and Budgeting
Once the intention is established, we move into negotiation and budgeting.
First and foremost, we must establish whether you actually want to be my ongoing Finsub or if you enjoy having one-off sessions.
Being my sub means having an ongoing, consistent relationship with regular communication, tithes, and Streamate shows. The casual approach entails one-off sessions, with the relationship starting and ending within the confines of each exclusive show on Streamate. There’s no wrong answer—but it’s an important distinction to make.
If you want more consistency in the relationship, we then move on to budgeting and time negotiation. What is a realistic budget for you? And how much of my time will I be able to give?
For example:
- If you send me 10g for a coffee once a week, you may receive a reward like praise and a picture of me with the coffee.
- If you send me 1000g for a new tattoo, we might negotiate picture updates throughout the process, messaging privileges (on Streamate) while I’m getting the tattoo, and being the first to see it live on cam during our next private or exclusive session.
It’s important for these conversations to be explicit.
Regular Check-Ins
Last and certainly not least, once we have an arrangement established and we begin to slut it up together every week, checking in will become an essential part of our routine,
This allows us to stay on the same page, make adjustments to the arrangement, and ensure that we’re both feeling good.
In Conclusion
The main point I want to make in this blog is that there’s no one way to be a Finsub—nor is there one way that’s better than any other.
Financial Domination is about much more than money.
Like any D/s relationship, it’s about connection, dedication, and service. A 10g coffee means as much to me as a 500g birthday gift if it’s given as a true act of service.
You can be a Finsub on any budget and without following the usual stereotypes. Exploring what works best for you is part of the joy that comes with being a kinkster!
Ready for the next step?
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Daddy will be waiting for you…
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